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GrandPal Maxine Finger

Maxine Finger has been retired for many years and keeps herself very busy with many activities aimed at a healthy lifestyle. She is a grandmother of four, all of whom are in their twenties.

“Being a GrandPal has been a very warming experience for me, it brings back memories of my grandchildren when they were young and makes me feel bonded to my little students. Over the past five years, I thoroughly enjoyed being with these adorable youngsters. Each and every one of them have touched my heart. I loved to experience the way our relationship grows throughout the year. This past year I am lucky enough to be with these two adorable twin brothers. Every time I’m with them, they teach me things. They are extremely bright and I’m amazed how much knowledge these kids have. It is quite enlightening. Being a GrandPal has enriched my life and hope it continues.”

GrandPal Laurel Lerner

Meet Laurel Lerner, a passionate music enthusiast and dog lover. As a former singer turned piano teacher with a degree in music education, Laurel’s love for music runs deep. Laurel finds joy in both her human and furry companions, always with her Kindle in hand, ready to delve into a good book.

“One day I was reading a book and Chleo was staring at my face, almost two inches from me. I kept looking at her to see what she was staring at. She then asked, ‘Are you wearing lipstick?’ I say that I was. She then said, ‘It’s not allowed in school!’ Serafima said that lipstick is allowed for adults but not for children. I’m glad she cleared that up!!”

“Also, both girls are huggers. They greet me every week with a big hug, and when it’s time to go, I get more hugs. Those hugs carry me with joy all through the week!!”

GrandPal Marsha Freeman

“My greatest moments in reading with my GrandPals is when we break through their initial shyness and begin to have more interesting conversations.

Also, when I have been out and about in Princeton and I see my GrandPal outside of school. I usually then have the opportunity to meet Mom/Dad or siblings for a short chat.”

GrandPal Kathleen Wagner

Meet Kathleen Wagner, a delightful soul with a warm smile and a sparkle in her eyes. Rain or shine, she shows up at every session with her trusty bag of library books in tow. Her rapport with the little ones is simply magical, and she pours her heart and soul into every reading session. Kathy is always ready to read to as many kids as needed, effortlessly stepping up when other GrandPals are absent. With her joyful demeanor and warm smile, she can handle any group size with ease, spreading joy and laughter wherever she goes.

“As I entered the classroom that day, the sweet voices of two young boys, Julian and Michelangelo, greeted me warmly. They handed me a printed invitation to the yearly GrandPals lunch, organized by the teachers and parents as a token of gratitude for reading to the little ones. Clearly confused, they seemed to believe the lunch might be at their house. As they debated whose home would be more convenient for me, Julian exclaimed, ‘Please Come Miss Kathy!’ His eyes shone with excitement as he suggested, ‘It’s your choice. We can go to my home, which is much more convenient. I don’t want to drive, and I have a big cat.’ Michelangelo chimed in, ‘It’s really up to you, Miss Kathy. Whatever you choose will be ok with me.’ Little did they know, they were inviting me to a special celebration right there at school. I couldn’t bring myself to tell them the lunch was to be held at school. Their innocent enthusiasm and genuine desire to include me in their world touched my heart in a way I’ll never forget. What surprised me the most was that these two, who usually have a hard time deciding on things like what book to read, suddenly showing such kindness and respect towards each other. Peacefully and kindly, they agreed and politely offered options. It was astonishing because typically, they would argue over every mutual decision, yet suddenly, they were polite and accommodating towards each other. This unexpected display of maturity and harmony truly blew my mind.”

The Inaugural EmpowerHer Speaker Series

The Inaugural EmpowerHer Speaker Series
A Recap of Dr. Emelia Timpo’s Inspiring Presentation

In May 2024, we proudly launched the EmpowerHer Speaker Series, a platform created to amplify the often-overlooked contributions of women worldwide. From the quiet resilience of caregivers to the leadership of international organizations, this series aims to highlight the significant roles women play in shaping our world.

It sometimes seems necessary to remind ourselves that women have played fundamental roles in society. I believe that many of the challenges we face today could be addressed by listening to the voices of mothers, daughters, grandmothers, and indigenous leaders.

Our first talk featured Dr. Emelia Timpo, who brings a wealth of experience in agriculture, HIV/AIDS, gender, and educational policy, with seventeen years of leadership within the United Nations. Her expertise in project management, monitoring and evaluation, and policy development, combined with her academic background and commitment to global development, makes her a remarkable addition to our series.

Dr. Emelia Timpo opened our EmpowerHer series, sharing invaluable lessons from her extensive career and personal journey. Here are some of the key takeaways from her powerful talk:

  • Embrace Acceptance: “Since a very young age, I learned that not everyone is going to like you. You have to find a way to move on.”
  • Value of Hard Work: “If you do the hard work, people are going to value it—not because it’s easy, but because it’s persistent.”
  • Challenges and Opportunities: “Opportunities always come with challenges.”
  • Positive Perception: “Believe and see the good in everyone.”
  • Diversity as a Blessing: “Diversity is a blessing.”
  • Embracing Change: “Change is going to happen, whether we like it or not. We have to be ready.”
  • Positive Influence: “If we want to stop many of the problems we are facing right now, we have to make positive noise for our younger generations.”

Dr. Timpo’s insights set a powerful tone for the EmpowerHer series, reminding us of the strength and resilience found in diverse female voices.

We look forward to continuing this journey with you!

Note to Readers: If you know a woman whose inspiring story would make her a great guest for an upcoming EmpowerHer session, please do not hesitate to reach out to us. We are always eager to spotlight the voices and experiences that can inspire and uplift our community.

GrandPal Donna Wepplo

Donna Wepplo brings more than two decades of experience as an educator, having taught primarily in kindergarten and first grade at Community Park School in Princeton. She finds immense reward in witnessing children’s growth from preschool graduates to rising first or second-graders. Donna’s passion for teaching in her community shines through as she embraces the opportunity to work with kindergarten children once again through the GrandPal program, making it a cherished highlight of her week.

“I loved how the children brought their classroom knowledge into our GrandPal reading sessions. They were so proud of recognizing punctuation marks and would call out ‘There’s a quotation mark, there’s a period.’”

GrandPal Susan Mandhyan

“It’s fun to learn the kinds of stories and topics the children like and then go exploring in my own library to find more copies of an author, character, or subject they like. A little story I have for when I had two children to read with is that we would toss a coin to see who got to choose the first story. All the children really liked doing that and it prevented any sense of favoritism.”

Challenges to Your Last Will and Testament

Challenges to Your Last Will and Testament?

As our society ages and intrafamily issues become more pronounced, older individuals may face increased prospects of a challenge to their last will and testament, or other aspects of their estate plan. Two of the most common challenges to wills and other estate planning documents are 1) lack of capacity, and 2) undue influence.

Challenges to a Will Based on Lack of Capacity

If someone signs a will close in time to their death, or during a time when they are suffering from diminished capacity or other medical issues, questions may arise about whether or not they had sufficient capacity to execute the will. In these situations, it may be important to evaluate their physical and mental health to determine whether or not it is appropriate to sign a will.

New Jersey law requires that a will only be signed if the testator (the person who owns and creates the will) has the requisite testamentary capacity to execute this document. The individual making the will needs to generally understand that a will is being made, the property being distributed, who the beneficiaries or next-of-kin are, and how these factors correspond with one another. The law only requires a low degree of capacity, less than the capacity to sign a contract. For these reasons, a person may have sufficient capacity to make a will but may lack sufficient capacity to sign a power of attorney or other estate planning documents.

If a challenge is made to the Will, the testimony of both medical experts and fact witnesses may be presented. The decedent’s medical records may often become relevant in making such an assessment, especially where a will was executed close to the time of death or during a period of illness. This may include testimony from the witnesses to the will and the attorney who drafted the will.

Challenges Based on Undue Influence

A will and other portions of an estate plan may also be challenged based on undue influence. Undue influence occurs when mental or physical persuasion prevents a person from following the dictates of their mind and accepting the influence of another person. The coercion must be of a kind or quality that destroys the free will of the individual concerning the disposition of their assets, usually involving either a will or gifts to another person.

Courts will analyze several factors as part of an undue influence claim. These include the relationship of the parties involved, the physical and mental condition of the decedent, and the circumstances surrounding the execution of the will or other estate planning documents. If the decedent was weak or dependent on the beneficiary, the undue influence claims will receive closer attention. The mere fact that a beneficiary provided aide or assistance to the decedent does not, by itself, create undue influence to destroy the free will of a testator. The influence must be so pervasive that it destroys the decedent’s free will, resulting in the will reflecting the desires of the person who exerting the undue influence.

Litigating undue influence claims often involves several issues. Testimony or discovery will be needed to confirm the timing of the will relative to death, whether the decedent retained custody of the will for some time after it was signed, the nature of the terms of the will, the relationships of the beneficiaries to the decedent, the pattern of wills (or lack thereof), and the skill and independence of the attorney involved. This testimony can be complex and must be carefully evaluated.

Wills can be challenged for lack of capacity and undue influence. These claims can be complicated and require evaluation of a number of factors. If you believe that these may be an issue for you, it is strongly recommended that you seek an attorney.

Stark & Stark’s Trusts & Estates Team is Here to Help

For estates that have already been affected by undue influence, lack of capacity, or other issues, our team can assist with defending your rights. Depending on the problems involved, this may include assisting clients with the executor or administrator of the estate to address administrative issues; or filing litigation to protect clients who have been unfairly affected. Estate claims do not age well, and if you know someone who has been affected it is important that they protect their interests as soon as possible.

Clients who are interested in designing and implementing a trust and estate plan to preserve, protect, and transfer assets are most effective when completed before a crisis occurs. The crisis, however, sometimes arrives without warning, demanding immediate responses to complex legal, tax, business, and healthcare decisions. Inadequate preparation for life transitions and delayed response often lead to increased costs and loss of control over important personal and financial choices. An experienced Stark & Stark New Jersey or Pennsylvania estate lawyer can help you prepare for the unexpected.

Since each trust and estate is unique, we work closely with our clients to evaluate the various relevant legal, financial, tax, and business issues, and to understand the client’s concerns, needs, and expectations. Our estate planning clients rely on us to help them make prudent decisions for meeting their legal, financial, and ethical obligations.

We have extensive backgrounds in asset protection and wealth preservation, including hands-on experience in tax law (federal and the states of New Jersey and Pennsylvania), probate law, corporate law, business succession planning, elder law, guardianship law, and conservatorship law.

Stark & Stark clients receive the benefits found in a “boutique” firm that provides only trusts and estates services, along with the combined experience of many business, tax, real estate, family law, and litigation lawyers who bring to the creative problem-solving process an extraordinary depth of experience and level of sophistication.

For more information, please contact me at rmorris@stark-stark.com, or call 609.945.7617.

GrandPal Achilleas Antoniades

Achilleas Antoniades — “This is not going to be a long story. It will be just enough to convey my love for these two little boys, whom I had the great fortune to read to this past year at Riverside.”

My little friends Shaham and Vince
“First, it was Shaham, the son of immigrants from Bangladesh. I knew I was going to like him the moment I saw him. He was enthusiastic, talkative, smart, and interested in everything. He had something to say about everything, even though it did not always jive with reality. That’s fantasy, the world of a small boy. He interrogated me about all subjects that came up in our books. I was there to answer. I don’t know if I satisfied his fiery imagination, but the exchange was lively. So lively, I had to try hard to keep him interested in the story we were reading. He had his own take on stories, and once he got going, I couldn’t stop him.

Shaham is going to go places. I know it. He will not sit idle for a moment. He will talk his way through anything. How can you not miss interaction with this fantastic human being? I certainly will.

Then it was Vincent, who joined us halfway through the year. A quiet boy with long blond hair, you could not guess he was a recent immigrant from Brazil. Quiet but smart, his eyes were slowly burning with interest, inquiry, and intrigue.

He was a lovely boy. I would be happy to have him as my real grandson. I didn’t see him much, but I was so happy he recognized me one day when he and his parents met me at McCaffrey’s. He was a delight to read to and such a contrast to Shaham. I will miss them both.”

GrandPal Bob Swierczek

Bob Swierczek, a United States Navy veteran, resides in Princeton, where he selflessly dedicates his time to various volunteer roles. He serves as a crossing guard for the police department, assists as fire police for the fire department, reads to kindergarten classes, and organizes trips to Washington, D.C. for fellow veterans.

“Every year that I read to the kindergarten classes it brings me joy listening to the comments from the kids on the books I read. Some of the rhyming books are fun to read and having the kids try and guess the last word that rhymes. This year my two boys enjoy the world atlas. They pick out states and I read about it, capital, flower, bird, and the flag. They are interested in different parts of the world also.

It’s very rewarding to see the kids progress throughout the year and their interest increasing on reading.

GrandPals is a wonderful program for both the adults and the children.”

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