Frances: A heart full of dance and joy in Princeton

We’ve had the pleasure of seeing Frances at the Suzanne Patterson Building’s Nutrition Program, and we’ve also loved watching her dance wonderfully at the Music Fest. She’s always smiling and brightening the lives of those around her. Today, Frances shares her story, full of love for life, her family, and the community she’s found in Princeton.

Hello, I’m Frances. I came from China thirty-three years ago, from Chongqing, which is famous for its spicy food. At first, I felt a little lost, but today, Princeton is my home. My daughter grew up here and graduated from Princeton University, and I’m so proud of her. She now lives in New York, but we always come back to Princeton to spend time together, and that fills my heart.

What I love most about Princeton is the people. I don’t feel like a foreigner here; I’ve always been made to feel part of the community. The Nutrition Program at the Suzanne Patterson Building is one of the places where I feel most connected. I not only enjoy the food but also the conversations and the chance to see everyone who comes here. I don’t feel lonely, even though I live alone. The connections I’ve made with others keep me active and happy.

What I’m most passionate about is dancing. Last year, at the Music Fest, when I danced, I felt my body fill with energy. My favorite rhythm is Latin dance, but I also love ballroom dancing. I’ve been dancing for years, and I always try to stay active because I know that dancing keeps both my body and soul healthy. People say you get old when you stop moving, not when you get older, and I never want to stop dancing.

My advice for life is very simple: keep your heart happy, live with peace, and good health will follow. Happiness isn’t found in big things, but in the little things — in enjoying simple moments. And don’t forget to dance; that’s what keeps the spirit alive!

My life in Princeton has been a journey of connections, laughter, and love. I appreciate every moment here, surrounded by such wonderful people who make each day special.

Embracing Life and Connections: The Story of a Global Adventurer in Princeton

Meet Patrick Ryan, a spirited Princetonian whose adventurous spirit and love for life have taken him all over the world. As he puts it, “I’m a bit of an Irish gypsy.” Born on August 6, 1945, the very day the atomic bomb was dropped on Japan, Patrick grew up on his family’s dairy farm in Ewing, New Jersey. His roots are firmly planted in Mercer County, but his journey has taken him to nearly a dozen different places. A proud graduate of Princeton University (Class of ’68), Patrick’s life has been one of exploration, with stints in cities like Honolulu, San Francisco, Santa Fe, and Oaxaca, Mexico.

His academic journey at Princeton was diverse and full of discovery. “I played football, delved into art history, and ultimately graduated with a major in medieval history,” he recalls. “I took a number of art history classes,” reflecting on a time that shaped his understanding and love for culture. But even with his extensive travels, Princeton remains a place of deep connection for him. “The memories of my childhood home, built in 1750 and now a historic museum in Ewing, are cherished,” Patrick shares. “I’ve always found a way to return to my roots.”

Oaxaca, in southern Mexico, holds a special place in Patrick’s heart. “It’s the food capital of Mexico,” he says with a smile, sharing his admiration for the rich cultural diversity of the area. “It’s the heart of Mexico,” Patrick adds. “I think the reason it’s so important and so lovely is that 60% of the people in Oaxaca are natives, they’re indigenous, and each group has its own dress and fiestas. Everybody kind of gets along.” For Patrick, Oaxaca’s affordability is also striking. “For about $5 in Oaxaca, you can get a full meal,” he notes. “In Princeton, the cost of a good meal has become very expensive, but it’s still beautiful.”

Back in Princeton, he stays connected to his community, especially through the Suzanne Patterson Building’s Food & Nutrition Program for Older Adults. He values the opportunity to share meals and stories with others, and the connections made through the program bring him great joy. “It’s not just about the food, it’s the people and the fellowship that mean the most,” Patrick reflects. The social connections, whether over international appetizers or casual chats, help maintain his peace and well-being.

Patrick also deeply values the learning and growth opportunities offered by the Center for Modern Aging Princeton, a place that fosters connection and community well-being through its programs. “I was born with a gift of every day is a new day,” he shares. “You may as well make the best of it all.” He is grateful to be part of a space that celebrates diversity and inclusion, just like the cultures he’s explored throughout his life.

Rosetta Bruce: Embracing community and connection

“I’m Rosetta Bruce. For many years, I’ve been involved with the Center for Modern Aging Princeton. Hosting lunches and gathering wonderful women from all walks of life has always been a joy for me. The Center is more than just a place; it’s a space where diversity thrives, where people come together to share, connect, and celebrate life.

Attending events like Taste Around the World or Bingo always reminds me of the magic that happens when we gather. Meeting new faces — women I hadn’t known before — and making plans to reconnect is such a joy. The sense of fellowship here is unmatched, and it’s not just about the events, but about the lasting connections that grow from them. We remind each other to keep coming back, and we support one another outside of the Center, too.

For me, these social connections are essential for my mental and emotional well-being. Without them, I would be sitting in my apartment, alone and disconnected. But when I come here, I feel energized, happy, and surrounded by people who understand and lift me up. It’s a space where age, background, and experiences don’t matter. We are all here to enjoy life, learn from one another, and grow together.

Though I’ve moved to Plainsboro, Princeton will always be home to me. I lived there for sixty-five years, and the memories of raising my children in that house will forever be with me. But stepping into the Nancy S. Klath Center for Lifelong Learning always brings back those warm feelings of belonging. This is a place for everyone — where we come together, regardless of where we’ve come from, to share in the joy of connection and community.”

My name is Siraya Snead, and as I finish my internship at the Center for Modern Aging Princeton, I want to share my experience and what it has meant to me.

Starting this internship, I was driven by a desire to help others and explore the field of social work. I spent my days assisting seniors with their technology needs and offering companionship. It was a humbling experience to see how something as simple as helping someone with a phone or computer could make a significant difference in their day.

One of the most eye-opening aspects of my time here was realizing the depth of wisdom and life experience our seniors hold. Initially, I was hesitant about working with an older population, but I quickly learned how much they have to offer. Their resilience and stories have enriched my understanding of social work and the importance of genuine human connection.

Looking ahead, I’m eager to bring the skills and insights I’ve gained into my future endeavors. I’m particularly interested in working within the school system and supporting those affected by domestic violence and human trafficking. My time at the Center has solidified my commitment to these goals, and I’m grateful for the experience.

Thank you to everyone at the Center for Modern Aging Princeton for this invaluable experience. Your support has meant the world to me, and I’m excited to continue my journey in social work with the lessons I’ve learned here.

Nancy Watson: A Journey of Faith, Art, and Resilience

Hello, I’m Nancy Watson. My mother, an incredible artist, has always been a source of inspiration for me. From a young age, I followed in her footsteps and studied at the Philadelphia College of Art, now known as the University of the Arts. However, on June 7, 2024, the university closed its doors, leaving us with many questions and challenges.

During the turbulent times of the Civil Rights Movement, I moved to the suburbs with my children in search of a safer environment. We settled on John Street in Princeton, where I found peace and a welcoming community. Although I left the city, I couldn’t escape personal struggles. I faced severe health issues, including rheumatic heart disease and a troubled marriage. I felt trapped, but my faith provided me with a new purpose and the strength to accept what I could not control.

Faith gave me the strength to move forward. I began taking small jobs, using my art for Bible schools and daycares. I went back to school to earn credits in graphics and watched my children grow and receive scholarships for their education. Despite ongoing health problems and additional heart surgeries, the support from Social Security and my faith community was crucial.

My artistic journey continued with work for CLC Publications and WEC International. Eventually, I started my own business creating cards and prints from my paintings. Over the years, I’ve learned to appreciate the beauty of life’s journey and the strength found in faith and community support. My life is a testament to faith, resilience, and the power of mutual support. As I always say with gratitude: “To God be the glory for the things He has done.”

“I first came to Princeton in 2004 from South Africa, where I had been teaching mathematics. My journey began when my son, a professor at Princeton, needed help with his three young children. I packed up and left South Africa to take care of my great-grandchildren. My husband, who was a professor in upstate New York at SUNY, always encouraged me to pursue my education. After raising my children, I went back to school and earned my master’s degree in mathematics.

My life has taken me from India to South Africa, and even to Nepal, where I taught English and mathematics. The children there called me ‘American mom,’ and I helped finance their education. Seeing them succeed and become doctors and teachers is one of my greatest joys. When I arrived in Princeton, I lived with my son until his children went to college. Then, I bought my own apartment near the Suzanne Patterson Building.

I joined the Center for Modern Aging a year after moving here. The first program I participated in was ‘Let’s Talk,’ and I’ve been involved ever since. What I love most about the Center is its inclusivity. Unlike other senior centers that restrict membership based on residence, Princeton’s center welcomes everyone. It’s a place where I’ve found community and belonging. My only suggestion for improvement is to keep doing what they’re doing — creating an open and welcoming environment for all older adults.”

At the Center for Modern Aging Princeton, we believe in celebrating diversity and promoting inclusivity through various cultural experiences. One such vibrant experience is Bollywood dance, led by our dedicated instructor Aditi Jaisia. Aditi brings the magic of Bollywood to our older adults, creating a lively and engaging environment where participants can enjoy the many benefits of dance.

Her classes are a testament to the power of movement and the joy it can bring to people of all ages. In this interview, Aditi shares her passion for Bollywood dance, memorable experiences with her students, and the profound impact her classes have on the older adults at our center.

1. How would you describe yourself as a Bollywood instructor, and what inspired you to teach these classes for older adults at the Center for Modern Aging Princeton?
As a Bollywood instructor, I would describe myself as energetic, passionate about dancing, and someone who feels the music deeply. I have been pursuing dance personally for more than two decades now, bringing a wealth of experience and dedication to my classes. My sessions are designed to be fun, engaging, and accessible, focusing on the joy of movement and the rich cultural tapestry of Bollywood.

What inspired me to teach these classes for older adults at the Center for Modern Aging Princeton is the belief that dance is a universal language that transcends age. I wanted to create a space where participants could experience the physical, emotional, and social benefits of dance. Bollywood dance, with its lively music and expressive movements, offers a perfect medium to keep aging adults active and joyful.

2. Could you share a memorable experience from one of your Bollywood classes for older adults? What reactions have you observed, and how do you believe this dance form benefits aging adults?
One participant mentioned that they hadn’t moved this much in over a decade, which was incredibly heartwarming to hear. Another common reaction across the board was that the session was a fun way to move their whole body, something they rarely get to do in other fitness classes or in their daily lives. These responses reinforce my belief that Bollywood dance is not just a form of exercise but also a source of joy and community.

3. Why do you think Bollywood dance is beneficial and enjoyable for our participants? Which aspects of Bollywood dance do you find most impactful for them, both physically and emotionally?
Bollywood dance is beneficial and enjoyable for older adults due to its vibrant and engaging nature. The dynamic movements help strengthen muscles, improve balance, increase flexibility, and boost cardiovascular health. This full-body workout enhances physical well-being, making it an excellent fitness option for aging adults.

Emotionally, Bollywood dance brings joy and fun, reducing stress and promoting a sense of well-being. The cognitive stimulation from learning dance routines enhances memory and focus. Additionally, group classes foster a supportive community, alleviating feelings of loneliness. The cultural enrichment of Bollywood dance adds an educational and enjoyable dimension to the experience.

Aditi Jaisia’s dedication to bringing Bollywood dance to older adults at the Center for Modern Aging Princeton highlights the importance of inclusivity and cultural diversity in our community.

Her classes not only promote physical health but also bring joy, connection, and a celebration of cultural heritage.

“My name is Kimberly Figueroa Martínez, and I work with the Municipality of Princeton as the Community Outreach Coordinator. One of the events I’m particularly proud of organizing is the annual Lotería. Each year, we host it at different locations, and the most recent one was held at the Princeton University Art Museum. It was a huge success with approximately 150 participants. We partnered with the Municipality, the Center for Modern Aging Princeton, and the Princeton University Art Museum, making it a memorable event for everyone involved. It is a great activity to bring the community together.

I’m also excited to share that I’m currently expecting my first baby. I’m thrilled about raising my child here in Princeton and Mercer County. This area has so many events and activities for families, which I absolutely love. However, I believe there’s always room for improvement, especially when it comes to community programs. Enhancing these programs would make our community even stronger and more connected.

I love living in this area because of the vibrant community and the numerous opportunities for family activities. My hope is to continue contributing to this community and making it a wonderful place for my child and everyone else to live.”

Hi, I’m Virginia, and let me share my wonderful experience at the lottery event on March 16, hosted alongside the Princeton Art Museum and Princeton Human Services. Coming from Lawrenceville, I felt a deep connection to the community spirit that filled the air that day. Winning a beautiful fairy for my garden, and even a cake from Chez Alice, made the day truly special!

As a Venezuelan immigrant since ’78 who turned proud U.S. citizen, I’ve cherished the sense of belonging and togetherness that this country offers. That’s why I’m thrilled to recommend joining the community garden – a space where we can share the fruits of our labor, both literally and figuratively. It’s all about fostering connections, giving back, and growing together.

Events like these remind me of the beauty of community and the power of collective work. I’m grateful for the opportunity to share my story and encourage others to embrace the spirit of unity and growth in our vibrant community.

I’m Robin Bivins, a Princeton local and the sixth generation from the heart of New Jersey. Right now, I call Reading Circle home, and I’ve got to tell you, the Center for Modern Aging Princeton has become a special part of my life.

I joined in on the Christmas dinner festivities for the first time, and let me tell you, it was something else. The warmth, the laughter, and the sense of community—it just clicked. I’m definitely coming back for more, ready to dive into other programs they’ve got going on.

Why do I love it here? Well, it’s simple. The Center has been a real blessing for me. It’s not just about the activities; it’s about the people and the connections we make. There’s a certain joy in being part of something that feels like family.

Now, beyond the center, I wear another hat—I’m an evangelist at the Mount Pisgah AME Church right here in Princeton, a church with a whopping 198 years of history. I have a soft spot for spending time with older adults and making sure our seniors are well taken care of. I’ve been in the caregiving game for a long time, taking care of my mom and my husband through his battle with Alzheimer’s. It’s made me a bit of an expert on the topic, and it’s something close to my heart.

So, what’s my secret to staying active and healthy, you ask? Well, it’s not a secret, really. I’m all about social work and helping where I can.