I discovered a gem within the Center for Modern Aging Princeton — the French club. Joining this vibrant community not only revived forgotten memories but also introduced me to a circle of wonderful individuals. It’s a clear testament to the diverse and enriching experiences this center has to offer.

As a proud member of the Center, I can confidently affirm that this place has become my sanctuary. Seamlessly addressing the holistic needs of older adults, it provides a harmonious blend of social, physical, and mental stimulation.

Reflecting on life’s unpredictable journey, a valuable piece of advice stands out to me: embrace positivity. This mindset has been my guiding light when navigating challenges. Regular physical exercise plays a pivotal role in maintaining this outlook, and my deep love for dancing, especially salsa, has added a joyful rhythm to my daily routine. Dancing has become more than a pastime; it’s a source of pure joy and a life-changer.

Allow me to extend this heartfelt wisdom to you — in the flow of life, adopting a positive perspective and nurturing your physical well-being can be truly transformative.

Consider this my warm invitation to embark on a journey of self-discovery, community connection, and the simple joy of being. Give yourself the opportunity to explore endless possibilities and embrace the wisdom that comes from living a fulfilling life, all while reveling in the uplifting joy that dancing, particularly salsa, can bring. Envision each day as a new chapter in the beautiful story of life, waiting to be unfolded with a dance of joy.

My wife passed away last June after battling cancer. It was a tough time for both of us, and her absence is felt every day. We spent over five decades together, and Princeton became our home during that time. Despite the sorrow, I find solace in the fact that Princeton is a place I truly cherish. It’s a quiet and welcoming town with a low crime rate, making it a place where I’ve felt secure and content.

The recent focus of my efforts has been on putting my life back in order after her passing. Today, for instance, I’m fixing a flat tire on my truck, a small task but an essential one to keep me mobile. I’ve come to appreciate the simple joys of life and the importance of taking care of myself.

In this personal journey, I’m committed to maintaining a balanced diet, staying hydrated by drinking plenty of water, and ensuring I get enough rest. These small habits, I believe, contribute to a healthier and happier life. Despite the challenges, I’m determined to continue doing what I can to add more years to my life, honoring the memories of the wonderful years I shared with my wife in this town we both called home.

“My name is Alla Gadze, and I frequently visit the Princeton Senior Resource Center (PSRC). After living in West Africa for thirty years, I settled in Princeton two decades ago. During my time in Africa, I deeply appreciated the genuine friendliness of the people. I adore residing in Princeton due to its enchanting beauty and outstanding senior facilities and because I am close to my son and his family. That’s why I have always felt a sense of belonging to this place. 

Travel has always been a passion of mine, and I’ve been fortunate to explore numerous destinations, including Bali, Hawaii, London, West Africa, and many others. Among them, Hawaii holds a special place in my heart. However, above all else, my family is my sanctuary, and spending time with them is my absolute favorite. 

As a proud mother, I witnessed the growth of my two children, who completed their high school education in Africa. They have both achieved remarkable success. My daughter currently serves as a principal in a school in the UK, while my son has pursued a career in banking in the United States. 

Today, I want to share some advice: don’t worry excessively, indulge in your hobbies, and embrace happiness. Life is a journey, and cherishing the things that bring you joy is essential.” — Alla Gadze 

by Ana Carolina González-Peña, Coordinator of Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging 

In the heart of Princeton, New Jersey, resides a couple whose journey is as captivating as it is inspiring. Meet Marge and John D’amico, a duo whose bond has weathered nearly seventy years of life’s twists and turns. United by love and a shared heritage rooted in Italian ancestry, their story is a testament to resilience, ambition, and unwavering commitment.

Their tale began in the quaint town of Rochester, New York, where fate intervened at a birthday celebration. Marge and John, drawn together by destiny’s hand, embarked on a journey that would shape their lives and those around them. Education emerged as a cornerstone of their shared ambitions. John, a brilliant mind, secured a scholarship to the prestigious Massachusetts Institute of Technology in 1955, eventually earning a PhD in physics from Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute.

Marge’s journey mirrored her husband’s determination. Armed with a degree in molecular biology, she navigated academia while tending to their children in challenging conditions.

As Marge pursued her studies, her commitment to family and education remained unshaken. Their parents’ struggles and triumphs wove into the D’amico legacy. Marge’s father journeyed to America through Ellis Island, leaving Italy behind for a new path. John’s mother, despite health adversities, found solace in crafting German pastries. As their story unfolded, Marge and John embraced life’s challenges hand in hand. Today, they advocate for educational initiatives at the Princeton Senior Resource Center, infusing gratitude and enthusiasm into every program.

The D’amico narrative—a mosaic of love, sacrifice, and education—exemplifies unity and the enduring embrace of cultural heritage. In a changing world, Marge and John D’amico stand as a beacon of commitment and a testament to a life well-lived.

by Ana Carolina González-Peña, Coordinator of Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Belonging