Important Update: Temporary Closure of the Nancy S. Klath Center
Due to water damage, the Nancy S. Klath Center at 101 Poor Farm Road is temporarily closed and under construction. For your safety, please do not visit the building. We will notify the community when it is ready to reopen.

CMAP remains fully operational during this time. Staff are working remotely and from the Suzanne Patterson Building at 45 Stockton Street. Programs will continue as planned at the Suzanne Patterson Building and in virtual formats. We appreciate your understanding as we work to minimize disruption to our community.

GrandPal Deb Pillow

Deb Pillow, originally from Michigan and with a background in teaching and storytelling, found her perfect fit in GrandPals after moving to Princeton from Arizona just two-and-a-half years ago. With two married sons and four grandchildren spread across the country, GrandPals allows her to indulge her love for books and young children while enjoying retirement in Princeton.

What amazing, funny, precious…and smart….kindergartners there are in our schools! They all come with smiles and eagerness as we greet them each week. I have been blessed with four adorable “Pals,” two of whom can already read, one as fluently as I do !!!! When I have had him as a solo “Pal,” we take turns reading and it is a delight to see this bright, young mind at work. All four are sounding out words, recognizing words (though this has not been an emphasis during our time together), and enjoying stories. it is so amazing to see all their minds at work and their enthusiasm for books and reading.

What wonderful young minds, with a love of learning! The highlight of my week.

GrandPal Bob Swierczek

Bob Swierczek, a United States Navy veteran, resides in Princeton, where he selflessly dedicates his time to various volunteer roles. He serves as a crossing guard for the police department, assists as fire police for the fire department, reads to kindergarten classes, and organizes trips to Washington, D.C. for fellow veterans.

After several years of being in GrandPals and thinking of things to do other than reading, this year I decided to play some games with my Pals.

So after a few books and about ten minutes left in the session I started to play some games. First we did “Simon Says,” the next week “I Spy” and several more games as the weeks went by. This week we did “Password” and the kids got kick out of it. At first I came up with the word and gave them clues and after a few trys they would guess the word. We needed more than ten minutes since they really got into the game.

GrandPals is just not about reading with them, it’s about having fun with them.

GrandPal Christine Piatek

Christine Piatek was a GrandPal at Littlebrook School before the pandemic and eagerly rejoined when the program returned in full swing. Before retiring, she worked as a public sector lawyer specializing in environmental law. Now, she dedicates her time to supporting the community, tutoring ESL with Literacy NJ-Mercer County, and volunteering with various programs. For Christine, reading with young students is a true joy — their enthusiasm for books makes every session special.

On Wednesday, I was in the hallway near our classroom in the Johnson Park school waiting for the rest of the GrandPals. An older boy was walking up the hallway and saw my name tag with “Grandpals” on it and said “Are you a Grandpal?” I said “I am.” And, he smiled, said “Wow,” and went into his classroom. It seems we’re famous!

Frances

Frances: A heart full of dance and joy in Princeton

We’ve had the pleasure of seeing Frances at the Suzanne Patterson Building’s Nutrition Program, and we’ve also loved watching her dance wonderfully at the Music Fest. She’s always smiling and brightening the lives of those around her. Today, Frances shares her story, full of love for life, her family, and the community she’s found in Princeton.

Hello, I’m Frances. I came from China thirty-three years ago, from Chongqing, which is famous for its spicy food. At first, I felt a little lost, but today, Princeton is my home. My daughter grew up here and graduated from Princeton University, and I’m so proud of her. She now lives in New York, but we always come back to Princeton to spend time together, and that fills my heart.

What I love most about Princeton is the people. I don’t feel like a foreigner here; I’ve always been made to feel part of the community. The Nutrition Program at the Suzanne Patterson Building is one of the places where I feel most connected. I not only enjoy the food but also the conversations and the chance to see everyone who comes here. I don’t feel lonely, even though I live alone. The connections I’ve made with others keep me active and happy.

What I’m most passionate about is dancing. Last year, at the Music Fest, when I danced, I felt my body fill with energy. My favorite rhythm is Latin dance, but I also love ballroom dancing. I’ve been dancing for years, and I always try to stay active because I know that dancing keeps both my body and soul healthy. People say you get old when you stop moving, not when you get older, and I never want to stop dancing.

My advice for life is very simple: keep your heart happy, live with peace, and good health will follow. Happiness isn’t found in big things, but in the little things — in enjoying simple moments. And don’t forget to dance; that’s what keeps the spirit alive!

My life in Princeton has been a journey of connections, laughter, and love. I appreciate every moment here, surrounded by such wonderful people who make each day special.

GrandPal Frank McBrearity

Frank McBrearity is pursuing a degree in MGA (Master’s of Grandparent Administration) and spreading joy one fist bump at a time.

 

I believe I am making good progress toward my Masters in Grandparent Administration, the MGA, from Princeton.

I exited a class just before Christmas and a young woman caught my attention just outside the Library at Riverside. “Hi, are you Mr. Frank?”

“Yes, I am.” I replied.

“Well, my son Owen really enjoys your GrandPal sessions. He really likes you and looks forward to the Tuesday mornings with you. I get a report every Tuesday afternoon.”

“Thank you very much. It’s my pleasure. Owen has introduced me to PD&D Studies: Pokemon, Dragons, and Dinosaurs, a special group of studies and Owen is an expert.”

“Owen is an expert on these for sure. Thank you for your participation. Nice to meet you.”

This MGA experience helps to keep my attention away from the news of the day, and focus on my studies with Owen, Lia, Yuhito, and Kai. Terrific.

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